"Challenges In Black Dating"

What’s up people? As you all know I am reading Hill Harper’s new book “The Conversation”. I was reading a part last night about the challenges that black women and me have dating each other. It was pretty interesting the types of things that were said and some of the reasons. I have my own opinions and I will share them her shortly. So tell me what are your challenges or what have been some of your challenges and why do you feel that way.

"Trust"

Hello people I am coming to you again and I hope this time we get a better response. The topic of today is “Trust”. What is the meaning of trust, or better what is your meaning of trust. In Webster it basically says” To believe that one will do what he or she said that they would do”. Does trust mean that there is no room for error or do you have an error limit. Why is it so easy to lose trust when you come under someone’s expectations of you. And is there a formula to regaining trust when you have lost it? Please post comments below.

Thanks, LL

What's The Secret"

What’s up my people it is time to get back at it, I decided to take a break for a month and also give you all a break. I have a lot of emails and blog request so we will be busy for a while. I have decided to make the blogs a little more meaningful and helpful to some of the followers. With that being said.

I have been reading Hill Harper’s new book The Conversation “ How Black Men and Women Can Build Loving, Trusting Relationships”. When I first heard him talking about it he was on the Steve Harvey show, he spoke about different reasons and thoughts why he felt the African American family wasn’t as strong as it was and could be. My question to you and myself is what is the problem why is the divorce rate among Black or African American’s higher than those of other races. Why do some black women say that all black men are players? Why do some black men say that black women are gold diggers? It’s a lot of why’s and no answers to the questions. Let’s help each other out and see what could be some of the problems and see if we can offer advice to help someone else. So give me your take on why and what’s the Big Secret that we as Black’s don’t know about.