"Is She Feeling Me"

What’s up people. One of my good friends has an issue at his job. He is feeling this chick that works with but he doesn’t know if he is her type. She is in a Executive position at his job and he doesn’t want to step to her and lose his job and a chance to get with her. She comes pass his desk ever day to go to meeting and other job activities and she always makes it her business to speak or if he’s on the phone touch him on the shoulder. He’s confused because he feels she is throwing the signals but he doesn’t want to assume anything. Help my boy out how does he handle this one?

" You Better Get Yo Boy"

Good day people. I was listening to the “Steve Harvey Show” this morning and on the strawberry letter it was a young lady talking about her boyfriends friend.
Her boyfriend is in something called the GMC club, not sure what that is but anyway. He brings one of his club members to the house to work out with him and she thinks that the friend is FINE AS HELL. When he comes over she goes upstairs and stays until he leaves. She says when he is there he just does something to her, he’s talk dark and fine and she told her boyfriend to stop bringing him to the house and he laughed and said girl you crazy. Okay he stupid cause when a woman has enough of whatever to tell you she is feeling your homeboy in a direct way or indirect way you need to act on it then.

Okay so how would you handle the situation fellas from and man’s stand point how would you handle it.

Ladies from a woman’s stand and have you ever been in that position or how would you handle it.

"My Head Hurts"

Okay people I know I’m late today got a good one though. Talked to a couple of dudes and we had a conversation about why is it that we have to wait for sex and when we do get it, it’s on the women’s time. I mean if I know that you need something and it’s my responsibility to make sure you have it why can’t I get the same treatment. I’m ready done dropped all kinds of hints walking around the house naked and it’s like uh that’s nice, O my head hurts. What! Your head hurts well mine doe’s too and it’s not the one on my shoulders. I talked to one guy and he said it’s happens only 1 or 2 times a month. Ladies what’s up help us out what do we need to do? I mean when you want it we ready, no questions.

"Shawn Or Michael"

O boy, good day people got another hot one. One my old roommates from college called me yesterday and was telling me about his girlfriend's sister’s friend. Apparently she has meet a guy over in Atlanta . Now the sister use to live in Atlanta as well when she was in college. The friend is telling the sister how great this guy is what he has going for his self, how handsome and fine he is and how he is blowin her back out. A couple of years ago the sister had the same kind of guy in her life same things going for his self and everything, well the relationship didn’t work out and they moved on. When she was telling her about this guy she made the statement "O that sounds like Mike". She replied no it’s not him his name is Shawn and she replied “O Okay”. Now mind you the friend never meet this guy she only heard about him. Well the thing is, his name is Shawn and his name is Mike …..uh Shawn Michael is his WHOLE name. O BOY! Yeah I know right. Well the friend is in love with this dude and until yesterday the sister wasn’t 100% sure this was the same guy. Well when the friend called and told her that she spent the night at his house and he has a mirror on his ceiling with SM on it . WOW! Now the friend and Shaw are coming to town for a concert on Friday and she wants her to meet him. The sister doesn’t know what to do or how to tell her that she use to date this guy and they have broken a few items in his apartment while she was in college. The twist is the sister still talks to this guy from time to time and they have been playing with the idea of getting back together. WHAT!

Okay folks you know what to do. O it’s gone be Hot Lanta for real this weekend.

O I made the name up, got to keep it professional.

"White Is Right"

What’s up people? Let me tell yall about how we continue to keep our selves down (Black People). Ok check it me and my wife went to my younger sisters high school graduation yesterday evening. While at the ceremony we saw a lot of people that we knew mainly me because my wife isn’t from Birmingham. Ok so after the whole deal was over we were standing around talking and my wife saw one of her patients. She was a younger girl may be about 23 or so. My wife asked her how she was and how was her daughter. Well about three weeks ago my wife saw her daughter and discovered that she had and ear infection, she give her so antibiotics to take to help clear it up and informed her that her daughter needed tubes in her ears to help drain the fluid. Well when my wife asked her did she have the surgery for the tubes she said “No I took her to a "WHITE" Doctor and he said she didn’t need them”. A WHITE doctor. O okay. So mind you I hear this and if anybody knows me you know that I will bust that #@^ on the spot. So when she said that I said “WHAT” and my wife just pulled on my arm and I let it go. Where and why do so many of our people get the idea that White is right or its better? I mean my wife graduated with 80 something white doctors and 2 other blacks, she is in the medical honors society graduated with honors. Come on now, black doctors go to the same schools that the white ones do.

What is it going to take for us to wake up and smell the coffee and get debrain washed? O as you can tell I’m pissed.

"If She Only Knew"

One of my boys is in a situation out in Arizona. He and one of his good friends went out to a BBQ this past weekend. Of course there were women there and of course the men were on the hunt to get them some new team members. Me and my boy had a serious conversation about two weeks ago and he was telling me about this chick in the area that he was wanting to get at. He had decided that he was going to settle down and start to look for a wife. Big move right. So In the right mind set they hit the BBQ and start mingling. About an hour later guess who pops out of the house. Yep! Super sexy, the chick he has been checking for the last month or so. So he goes over and speaks starts a conversation on a friendly level and plains to make the big move before he leaves. So being the gentleman that he is, asked her if she wanted some food and fixed her plate. Okay while they were eating she asked him who was the guy that he came with. He replied O that’s my boy! So the night went on and before leaving he saw her walking towards them. To his surprise she pulled his boy to the side and gives him her number. What ! Yeah I know that ain’t it though, his boy is MARRIED. He asked him was he going to tell her and he was like she didn’t ask, “I’m going to take whatever she gives me”. O yeah during their conversation she told my boy she was ready for her husband.

Crazy huh. So should my boy tell her he’s married or should he lose his potential wife and keep a friend. – that’s cheating on his wife.

" I Dont Like Being Under Your Spot Like"

Good day people. Got some new info from a follower. Check it. If you and your mate work together either married, dating, boyfriend, girlfriend or cut buddy there are some rules that need to be laid down. The follower had an issue with a co-worker and a new found love at the work place. The follower and friend were cool and as time went on a relationship developed between the friend and another co-worker. Well their friendship started to become indirect instead of direct. The new found love wasn’t all that fond of the follower holding conversations and office visits with the new piece. So out of respect for the new relationship the follower backed off and made the friendship a “Hey how are you type deal”. Now the follower stated that it may be some insecurity issues here. So what’s your take on this issue and other work place relationships?

"What ! You Ain't Gone Tell Him"

Hey guys you must check this out. Got an email from one of the followers on here and this is what one of her friends sent her. O thanks for the info.

Ladies I got a story about that too!!!! I was in a wedding of a girlfriend who lived in Atlanta..I took my friend with me it was a busy weekend..I took a red eye out Friday night..anyway..Saturday, after the wedding I’m dog tired..I only got about 2-3 hours sleep..I go back to my room..to go to bed b/c I’m flying out Sunday afternoon...my friend decided to chill, hang out with groomsmen…Well, she hooked up with the grooms man who walked me down the aisle..

Guess what??? Saturday I'm hosting her baby shower..she got pregnant by him (he don't know)..she's keeping the baby of course b/c she wants one soooooo bad..crazy huh?
Just thought I’d share a little drama but more importantly show U how trifling some women are. I love her, but she wrong. This girl is kind of the drama queen..she isn't going to tell him either..she doesn't know him..besides keeping me company while I attended the wedding..They never spoke after that night, she says she isn't going to Atlanta again..she’s convinced she doesn't see a reason to tell him..What ya’ll think?

"The Starter Wife"

What’s up good people? Awhile back I had a conversation with a young lady and she was asking what should she do about her situation. The problem is, her husband who is younger had made some mistakes in their marriage. In his defense she said he didn’t have a father in the home to teach him certain things about marriage. She said he was starting to get better and working on his problems. She was still playing with the idea of leaving. I told her not to be a starter wife and she asked what is that. I told her it was a woman was in a marriage and left after all the heart breaks and pain. A wife who didn’t believe in change and one who went through all the bad times and the LEARNING stages of a marriage and left. Well what happens is the next woman that he meets and starts a new marriage with is going to rep all the blessings from your pain and heart ache. So I told her to hang in there and give it time pray about it and be positive. God doesn’t put more on you than you can bare. If you leave the next man might be twice as bad.

So do you think there is a such thing as a starter wife?

"Dont Ask For It If Your Not Ready"

Good day people. I over heard some guys talking about their fiancé and girlfriend. The conversation was about why do women all ways say they want a good man or husband and they really don’t know what they are asking for. One guy was like “yeah man I know I’m a good dude, she told me I was what she has been waiting on and all that”. Okay but why is it that you don’t know how to be a good woman and do what you need to do to keep a good man. The other said “ I heard my girl in the bathroom the other night talking to somebody and she said “girl he is so good to me and I have no complaints, Im not use to that I don’t know what to do”. Hmmmmmm. Okay ladies what’s up?

Why is it that some of you pray and ask for good men and you ain’t got your ducks in a row?

And when you get him you don’t know what to do to maintain him?

"Was he flirting"

Okay just got a call from my friend and his wife they fowarded me an email that he sent to one of his female class mates from high school. Well his wife thought that it should have been about the class reunion and that's it. Below I will paste the conversation tell me what you think.







April 23 at 9:06pm
Out of the blue. It's a pleasure to know youre still around and doing well.How have you been? is an overused question. I find it much more interesting to ask..........TELL ME EVERYTHING I'VE MISSED ABOUT YOUR LIFE SINCE HIGH SCHOOL (PRETEND WE WERE BEST FRIENDS)


April 27 at 2:22pm
Hey .. I see that you still have your sense of humor :-) I'm doing well, how are you? Sorry it took me so long to respond.. I haven't checked my inbox in a while....

April 28 at 9:27am
wow, its so nice to talk to someone from the past. nice pictures by the way, I never knew you could look so good, lol.



April 28 at 9:34am
I know right.. HA, you're funny... thanks... I think lol



April 28 at 9:42am
No really, I didn't know you could look that good... just playing. hmmmmmm... awkward silence.......Are you still in alabama



April 28 at 9:54am
Oh whatever... I'm just all grown up now:-) I see you have gained some weight...awkward silence lolYes, I am still here, for now.



April 28 at 9:57am
do me a favor, call my office phone. And no im not coming on to you.



April 28 at 9:58am
im supposed to be doing paperwork not typing.



April 28 at 9:59am
Ah... I figured that.. married man lol.. I'm about to go into a meeting... I will call sometime today



April 28 at 10:10am
that'll work.



May 11 at 10:52am
I didn't forget about ya...well maybe I did... sorry lol



Today at 8:59am
I figured you forgot, just let me know if there is a high school reunion being planned. AT least you can admit you forgot.



Today at 9:00am
you get two points for that



Today at 9:09am
Aw well thanks for the two points... I will find out for ya... I think so, but I'm not sure.



Today at 9:10am
alright

"Soul Mate"

Hey resently had a conversation with a young lady and she asked me why I decided to get married. I told her that I prayed to God for my wife and when I saw her without knowing a thing about her, her name, never heard her speak a word. I just heard a voice that said thats your wife. She thought I was full of it. What do you think?

Is it possible to know your life partner on site, with out knowing anything about them?