Friday, August 21, 2009
"Best Kept Secret"
What’s up people I got an email from a follower earlier this week. She met this guy at a function about 6mnths ago. He was there with some of his boys and some co-workers. They had seen each other out on other occasions and never took it any further. Well at this party she asked the host who he was and what was his status and he asked the host the same. Well the host was wanting to hook up with the dude herself and didn’t really give neither of them to much info about the other. Well they ended up hooking up any way. Now the deal is the dude is married and the girl knows it, she has a roommate and the roommate has been asking who is the dude coming over in the middle of the night beaten the brakes off her, and she knows is good because she has never heard her that loud before. She wants to tell her how good he is and who he is but she is afraid that it might get out that he’s married and it could mess up her good thing and his marriage. What should she do? Just keep a open mind here.
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Shaquana said.
ReplyDeleteOk, I know all the married people are going to go into a tizzy about this one. I've never been married but I have been betrayed in a relationship. So I get all the he shouldn't be lying, they shouldn't be cheating, whoop d woo, whatever. I think she needs to be clear about what cheating is. He IS NOT her man, so she needs to dead all these ideas about revealing who he is & discussing the relationship with ANYBODY. Don't tell your nosy ass roomate anything. NOBODY can keep your secrets like you. If you're gonna play the game play it correctly. Keep your damn mouth shut. It may be good, & she may be having fun, but there are bigger fish to fry in this situation. She just needs to remember that man does not belong to her, he's not leaving his wife, he aint her new boo, & it's just not the type of thing that you broadcast. She went into the situation with eyes wide open & so did he. Don't start getting all emotionally attached & let your mind run off to that place that is so far removed from reality. I'm not gonna judge, because every grown person has to be responsible for their own actions & make decisions for themselves. But from EXPERIENCE, I would dead the situation. Because if she plays the game right, he never will. He's having his cake & eating it too. & the wife may never get a clue, but you'll always live with those choices. I'm sure it's been fun, but don't ride that ride too long. & definitely don't tell no damn body. It's really not cute.