Tuesday, July 6, 2010
"Inter-Racial Dating"
Good day people! I hope everyone had a good weekend, again welcome to the new followers I hope you enjoy the experience. We started off a little moderate last week, but we're jumping of the cliff today. Let's touch on " Inter-Racial Dating", is it okay whats your honest opinion. Do you get heated when you see a black man with a white woman or opposite. How will it affect their children. Why does it bother you?
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Very interesting topic LL one that I debate very often, I do not have a problem with inter-racial dating. I have dated a few white guys and actually enjoyed the experience. My friends have a huge problem with black women dating a white man. They say black women should be with black men, because you both understand each other, and you come from the same culture. I say BS because I’m black doesn’t mean I’ve been exposed to the same thing all black people have been exposed to. I don’t see any color as long as that man is able to respect me, love me, and treat me like the queen I am it doesn’t matter what color he is. Now please don’t get the game twisted I do believe there are black men out there who are more than capable of doing all these things and if I’m privileged enough to have a black man as my MR. RIGHT, I will be with him gladly however if he’s white, asian, whatever I’m cool with that too. *THAT’S ALL*
ReplyDeleteAndre'a Parker
The first part of my answer is going to sound really shallow...If it ain't a brother that's going somewhere, I don't care. But it makes my blood boil to see a black man that looks good, works hard and knows how to treat a woman with a white woman. There's a guy I know: good looking, college grad, good career that vows to never date and marry a black woman. It makes absolutely no sense to me. I wanna know what does he think about his mom, aunts, cousins and other black women in his life?! At the end of the day, I try to keep the blood boiling to a minimum because I don't know how they met and what the circumstances surrounding their relationship are. It's not very often that I see a black woman with a white man. It doesn't make me as angry but I think I'd prefer to see my sisters with a black man. But, I guess if we look at the dreaded statistics it just ain't enough brothers to go around...
ReplyDelete-O! - Deidre Clark
I personally feel that inter-racial dating is no problem at all. I my book if your fine black, white, Indian, Mexican doesn’t matter to me. Now let me change your thinking for a moment. Dating is one thing but letting it grown into a relationship is another. When you start to make a comment to a person outside of your race you have to think of all the pro and cons. You must keep in mind culture trends, religion, people in general as well as both families. It’s a bigger step than most think, but if the person is open to go to the next level why not, just make sure you pray and ask for directions as you start a not so easy journey.
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