What’s up good people? Awhile back I had a conversation with a young lady and she was asking what should she do about her situation. The problem is, her husband who is younger had made some mistakes in their marriage. In his defense she said he didn’t have a father in the home to teach him certain things about marriage. She said he was starting to get better and working on his problems. She was still playing with the idea of leaving. I told her not to be a starter wife and she asked what is that. I told her it was a woman was in a marriage and left after all the heart breaks and pain. A wife who didn’t believe in change and one who went through all the bad times and the LEARNING stages of a marriage and left. Well what happens is the next woman that he meets and starts a new marriage with is going to rep all the blessings from your pain and heart ache. So I told her to hang in there and give it time pray about it and be positive. God doesn’t put more on you than you can bare. If you leave the next man might be twice as bad.
So do you think there is a such thing as a starter wife?
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Yes! I married a man who divorced his starter wife! Yes I inherited a little drama, to include their being a child also from the marriage. But the best part about it is that he grew and learned from mistakes that were made and I feel like we have been married for 20+ years rather than just 5. So what may have ended up as an argument with a starter wife is just swept under the rug now. You have to learn to pick your battles. That comes from experience. I got the long end of the stick!
ReplyDeleteNow people thats a real example of a starter wife. She could'nt handle the presure that produced the blessing. Every person on this earth is pregnant with wonderful possibilities.
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