Good day people. I over heard some guys talking about their fiancé and girlfriend. The conversation was about why do women all ways say they want a good man or husband and they really don’t know what they are asking for. One guy was like “yeah man I know I’m a good dude, she told me I was what she has been waiting on and all that”. Okay but why is it that you don’t know how to be a good woman and do what you need to do to keep a good man. The other said “ I heard my girl in the bathroom the other night talking to somebody and she said “girl he is so good to me and I have no complaints, Im not use to that I don’t know what to do”. Hmmmmmm. Okay ladies what’s up?
Why is it that some of you pray and ask for good men and you ain’t got your ducks in a row?
And when you get him you don’t know what to do to maintain him?
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The reason that some females do not know what they want in a man or vice versa is that they do not know themselves yet. Or maybe it is because they live lies of their on. I believe that GOD created everyone to a certain likeness and everyone will not have the same morals, values, characteristics, etc as yourself. So, lets assume a man meets a woman in passing at Wal-Mart, LOl! Seriously though, it happens. Maybe she stopped there on the way to an interview to grab some panti-hose and she had on a suit. She was beuatiful/sharp. Well, the brother is a prominent business man who stopped to have his oil changed before heading to work. She is ghetto as all outdoors, but he doesn't know that yet. She has not had a steady job, disfunctional upbringing, lives beyond her means, open in more ways than one. He has a degree from an HBCU, middle class money, some positive influences in his life. He helped raise his younger sister. They have been exposed to many different ways of the world. She sees what she wants but cant grasp it. She has not had the role models in her life to help her understand that she has value, worth. She strives to be a person that know one has taught her how to become. How was her mother raised? Grandmother? Sisters? Has anyone taught her how to love, how to be loved? I bet if she experience at least some of these things, she can tell you what she wants in a man. Honesty, integrity, great cook, christian, strong but sensitive at times, well-dressed, caring, smells good, good hygiene, educated, humorous, loves movies, entertainment(music/arts)..................................................................................... WOMEN, we must be specific when we post a job opening or any applicant will submit their resume!!!!
ReplyDeleteWell black pearl put it out there plan and simple deep but simple and so much truth.
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