Friday, June 26, 2009
'Best Man"
Okay people, why did my cousin call me last night and told me that he was braking off his engagement because he caught his fiancé cheating with his homeboy. He called me about 10:30 last night and we were talking about the Legend (MJ) don’t play. So I’m about to get off the phone and he was like cuz I got to tell you something man and I haven’t told anyone else. Now this chick is a nurse good wholesome girl never gave him any problems and she always made him feel like he was the one and only always act like she wouldn’t do this or that don’t drink you know the ones that claim they are o so good. He was never the type to want to settle down for real for real but she brought it out. He use to tell me man I never been with a chick that made me feel this way. He said for the last 4 months his home boy has been staying with them 2 nights out of the week because he works in city they live in to days out of the week. Well the home boy goes to work before him and his wife then the wife and then him. He had been trying to get his schedule changed at work so he could be home when their kids got out of school, well he did and something told him not to tell his wife. They had a power outage last Monday at his job and they had to leave early, so my boy goes to the house, gets there no one is there. He decides to take a nap and about an hour later he heard the door open and then close. He didn’t move he just stayed there for about 15mins he went down stairs to the kitchen didn’t see anything, went to the den didn’t see anything . He heard a noise in the bathroom, went down the hall and opened the door slowly and saw his fiancé jacked up on the back of the toilet and his homeboy giving her the business. He said it was about 3 to 4 mins before she realized that he was standing there. He said when she opened her eyes she just started crying and his homeboy just started shaking. He said he pushed her in the tube and beat the hell out of his boy. He told me he tried to kill him but the police came, the fiancé ran out of the house to the bus stop and just sat there crying, she ain’t even been back to the house. Now how F%^& up is that? He is hurt bad to people. I don’t even know how to tell him to cope with it. Any suggestions?
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OMG! How terrible. Hopefully the “friend” won’t be punk enough to press charges on your boy so I hope he won’t have that to deal with. I’m just trying to see how they didn’t know he was home. Does your boy not have a car they would’ve seen when they got home? That’s beside the point. I know your boy was trying the help the “friend” out, but never should he have let another man stay with him!! We are human and some of us are weaker than others so you should never assume that your significant other wouldn’t take the chance to sleep with someone else if the opportunity presented itself. What type of job does he have that his employer doesn’t accommodate him if he’s working away from home?! That makes me wonder had the finance’ and friend had a spark before and that was his way to get next to her. Even if that’s not the case, I’m sure the “friend” had thought about tapping that well before the living arrangement began. As far as the fiance’, he should leave her and do what he can for their kids. Although it was screwed up how it happened, it is best he found how she was well in advance. Although it isn’t your friend’s fault, clearly there was some level he and the fiance’ weren’t connecting on and why she felt it necessary to cheat.
ReplyDeleteOne last question, did you say they have kids together or are the kids hers? If they are just hers, perhaps he should take a long look at their relationship. She may have been just looking for a meal ticket all along.
Well they live in New York so he rides the subway to work. He has a car but he only drives it when they are going outside of the city, he leaves it in a parking deck near their home. They have one kid together and the other is from a previous relationship she had. I told him that I think her and ole dude knew each other before him and her met. He told me he just introduced them when his boy came to stay with them. She is from the same city that is boy is from, I told him man they may have known each other before you.
ReplyDeleteNow that is so heartbreaking I am about to drop a few tears for him! Now he will never feel the same about women or believe anything we say to him. He has changed himself to be with her b/c she was suppose to be "miss goody 2 shoe". He honestly put a lot of trust into this woman and just was decieved. Who's to say she has not always cheated on him....???? You know women are the best at this lol. Sorry to say but that's what we do make men feel like they are the "only one" especially if they are not. Yall seen the play Madea Goes to Jail....the lady husband died thinking he was the "only one". This is a very tough situation because it's easy for those of us on the outside looking in to tell him to leave which may be the best thing to do because he will NEVER look at her the same nor will there relationship be the same. He saw this with his own eyes. I was taught to NEVER EVER invite a "friend" into your home and especially NEVER leave them alone. You are to know where they both are at all times!! I can go on about this one but I won't. I just pray that God heals his broken heart. Oh yea don't get it twisted fiance is devistated cause she was caught red handed so she don't know how to come to him and even apologize. She pretty much know it's a done deal with the wedding and them!
ReplyDeleteSo true DST QT and now she has to tell all her family and friends that the wedding is off b/c she's the one who is dead wrong!
ReplyDeleteThis is Shaquana.
ReplyDeleteWoooooow......this is a damn shame. Weren't we JUST talkin about this. I just said husbands are killing people when they catch them cheating these days. This is sad, but I truly believe GOD will allow things to happen to us. I don't know this man, but I don't believe people just jump in the sheets out the blue like they do in the movies. I agree with you LL, I think there may have been something between the two of them before he introduced them, or there has been a chemistry between them all along. & honestly, I think homeboy has been getting pebbles & he either hasn't been seeing them or he's been ignoring them. Either way, when GOD drops a pebble & we don't pay attn, he will start dropping bricks. I think he has a blessing in all this though, he didn't say "I do". This would've been much worse if it had happened after they got married. So, I know he's hurt now, & it's gonna take a long time to heal, but he will eventually see the blessing through the pain. & I have to agree with everyone, NEVER allow someone to live in your home. My cousin's boyfriend brought his friend into their home to help him out. They started having sex & she got pregnant. She didn't tell her boyfriend, & he didn't find out until well after the baby was born(looking just like his friend's son might I add). I think it's just sad that some people are this disrespectful, selfish, & hurtful. I pray that he comes through this a better man, & he's not too scarred to love again.
P.S. Tell him he has nothing to be ashamed of, because I know it is embarrassing when you have to call off a wedding. All the fault in this situation falls on her trifling ass. Tell him to hold his head up high & don't listen to the haters.
RIP MJ(The KING)
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ReplyDeleteBrother,
ReplyDeleteJust move on and try to not let the ways of your ex-fiancee' destroy the blessing that is in store for you. If GOD is the head of your life, you should be realizing that he clearly just stopped you from making the biggest mistake in the world. She was not the chosen one. Believe it! Continue working on yourself by yourself in HIS name and HE will bring her to you.
OH LAWD!!!!
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