Hey! Good people I got a hot one for today. I had a talk with some people about having SEX before marriage. Now in the good book the (Bible) it says that you should wait to have sex until you get married, some may say “why”. I mean if you meet someone and the connection is there why not, I mean you are feeling them you trust them enough to let them enter your body or you enter theirs so what’s the big deal. What if I don’t ever get married? What if the person that I’m having sex with is the person that I’m going to marry? Why should I wait? What if I wait and it’s not good, then I’m stuck.
Okay people what’s up let me know your take on this one.
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Well in my opinion it’s a lot of reason why not to have sex before marriage. Now don’t get it twisted I was server before I got married but as I matured I learned why it would have been better to wait. First off because GOD said so, and if he said so he said it for a good reason. I feel that if you let GOD lead you to your mate or for a woman let your mate find you It’s no need for a test drive. If he gives you something it’s what he has for YOU and it was made for you so there for it’s going to be the perfect fit. GOD doesn’t have to test he knows what’s best for you. Second when you lay down with someone its more than just a physical thing, you have emotions and spiritual things going on. Once you enter or let someone enter into your body you can’t take it back. A part of them will always be with you, now if they ain’t no good you just stuck. Third STD’s I personally feel that STD’s are GOD’s way of punishing us for having sex before marriage. If you wait and let him send you someone you won’t have that to worry about. Lastly for now, do you want to be with someone that half of the city has been with? Yeah for men it’s cool to say yeah I hit that, ok it’s cool when your single but when you get married and start seeing these chicks out and your wife starts to hear “yeah I let him hit this”. What! Yeah you won’t be hitin this tonight. As I got older I realized that your past will affect your future, and sex is a good way to get a bad rep for men and women. Now this is just this topic because it’s so many other sins in the world and none is greater than the other.
ReplyDeleteI think it works both ways. They both should want to try it out. If its good, that makes it even better knowing what you can expect. If its bad, you can definately expect a cheater.
ReplyDeleteSorry!!! But its definately the TRUTH, married or not.
I feel you. Now I'm not saying that it's easy to not have sex before marriage because I did and enjoyed every minute of it. Well it lasted longer than a minute.
ReplyDeleteWhere do my mate and I learn, if we are both ignorant to sexual skills? You are out of your mind if you (man or woman) believe you can realistically commit to marriage without knowing if ALL COMPONENTS of the marital contract can be met. What happens when you find yourself in a totally unsatisfying relationship physically?
ReplyDeleteDepending upon which religious sector you believe, premarital sex is more in reference to having sex with more than one man. I am using man because the premarital sex references in the bible are mostly for control over women. It was forbidden to have sex with a man to whom you have not been betroved. Remember that in biblical times marriages were prearranged.
Check out Deuteronomy 22:28 - 29, and Exodus 22:16 - 17,
I think it's wrong and i feel bad every time I do it.... well after.... lol... but it's just a matter of controlling your flesh and being careful what enter your eye sight and your ears... If I’m spiritually weaker as far a sex compared to a certain I won’t be doing house visits... I know me.... God gives up escape route in every situation, it's just a matter of taking them... WHEN HE CALLED I COULD HAVE IGNORED THE CALL, WHEN I ANSWER AND HE SAID COME OVER I COULD HAVE SAID NO, ONE ME WAY OVER THERE I COULD HAVE TURNED AROUND, WHEN I GOT THERE I COULD HAVE SAID LETS JUST TALK OUTSIDE, WHEN I WAS SITTING ON THE COUCH I COULD HAVE SAID I GOTTA GO, WHEN HE KISSED MY NECK, I COULD HAVE SAID LETS JUST TALK, WHEN HE PULLED EM DOWN..... WELL TO LATE!!!!! YOU JUST GOT GOT! LOL.. POINT IS DONT PUT YOUR SELF IN SITUATION TO COMPRIMISES YOUR BELIEFS AND GOALS OR CHRISTIANANITY.
ReplyDeleteO boy! when they come down it's Oooovvveerrr!!!
ReplyDeleteThis is a very serious topic. Everywhere you look EVERYBODY is talking about premarital sex, is it right or wrong...even on the Michael Baisden show. On his show he mentioned that he was not a Christian b/c of this factor. He wants to be able to enjoy himself without feeling guilty or being prosecuted. Well here's my take, it is wrong point blank cause GOD said it was. Obey his commandments! Like LL mentioned it can cause serious problems if you do so. For example, say you are very experienced and your mate (husband or wife) is not, it can cause the other to cheat so that their sexual needs are satisfied. When you fist started (lost your virginity) you had no clue what you were doing especially if both were virgins, but it came with practice obviously...so the same thing can happen in a marriage after waiting. Another thing is say you're dating someone who is not satisfying you sexually but you really like them, why not teach them what you like and vice versa then both will be happy:)There is so much out there to teach you what to do anyway....dats how I learned LOL, and I had help from other people stories(girlfriends) on what they've done or tried to satisfy their "man". I also agree that std's are God's punishment for having premarital sex or committing adultrey. If you are only with your wife or husband these things you wouldn't have to worry about. God ALWAYS give you an escape but we choose to satisfy our flesh...It's serious but we also have to remember that we are human and we will fall, but God knows your heart and is a forgiving God! Try...
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