Wednesday, July 15, 2009
"Re-Cap" --What's A Man To Do
Hey people I got a call from my boy this morning about 5am. He told me that he went to bed last night about 9 and his wife was up doing some things around the house. She came to bed about 12, neither one of them could really sleep tossing and turning and eventually in the process of rolling over they ended up face to face and kissing took place. Well they went ahead and did the business, he said it was okay he really wasn’t into it because of all the drama going on. Well about two hours later he was awakened by her hitting him and calling him another guys name. DAMN! He said he asked her what did she say and she said it again not knowing that she was talking in her sleep. She woke up and he asked her who this guy was and she was like I was dreaming I don’t even know what I said and I don’t even know anyone by that name. O….kay………. Now what’s up? Help my boy before he goes to the crazy house.
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Okay, yeah. I would say again to really sit her down and explain, he's trying to right by her. If she can't appreciate that or make an effort to make it work between the two of them, she should get gone. I'd really say she's cheating now. That's the only explanation for her lack of interest in him sexually. The only reason it wend down last night was because she was dreaming about someone else. I never talk in my sleep and when I dream, they're very vivid and I dream about people I know. There just wouldn't be a random person in my dream, name and all. Maybe she was up trying to sneek in a late night convo with whoever her side guy is. Even if she's not cheating, physically (w/ sex) there's someone probably taking her time mentally and emotionally. Women can have that connection to someone else and it make them loose the physical attraction to their man b/c sex is a very emotional act to us. We don't seperate it like men do. So he needs to find out what's up.
ReplyDeleteWhat's up yall. I havent been on the blog in a while but I had to respond to this one. Homie its obvious whats going on here. But if she is calling someone else's name in the bed "twice", then there is no reason to be stuck on stupid. You can cover something up for so long but whats done in the dark will come to the light. Women take the time to analyze and process the little things. Thats why men get caught. On the other hand, the same way the little clues she is giving off right now should be taken into deep consideration. If you would slow down and pay attention to the little stuff, you will probably find the information you are looking for. Hell, if you paid more attention to the little things, you wouldn't have gotten caught in the first place. Homie, when your relationship has been damaged by infidelity, the possibility of it taking place again is higher thatn 75 PERCENT, and it could go either way (her or you). the only thing that heals those types of wounds is time and for some people revenge. My best advice, put together all the signs, ask questions, and figure out which one you have on your hands.
ReplyDeleteGood luck Pimpin'
Shaquana said.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Nelly, there seems to be more evidence of cheating now. When something is on your mind before you go to sleep, oftentimes you dream about it. That sounds like the case here. But I'm not trippin off her anymore. She's obviously very immature. She knows her husband is posting their problems on a damn blog for strangers to give him advice when she KNOWS what the problem is & she can end all this drama by just being a woman & being honest with her man...well, the man she's married to. He obviously loves her, & she knows it. It appears to me that this is a woman who knows she has a man by the balls & she is working him over real good. But she needs to remember that what you put out in this life, negative or positive, you will get back. I'm over this conversation, & I'm sooo over her.
I agree with all of yall, man if she is cheating just say it and deal with the out come stop the games. If yall gone work it out work it out if not be out.
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