Does he really want me or not?
They have been friends since elementary school, since adulthood they have became more than just friends, but with no title. Both kind of them really did not know where this relationship would go and both still talked to other people. They start to develop stronger feelings for each other, but now he gets his ex- girlfriend pregnant and marries her because of it. Even with the marriage they still keep their under cover relationship continues for about 4 years and now he is not with the wife anymore. She thinks that since he is separated from his wife and now seeking a divorce they will be together, since they’ve been together for the last 4 years. Well, now he says that he is not in a position to take care of a wife and that what he wants to be able to do, he keep stressing that he is not really focusing on being with anyone right now, he is even practicing celibacy, and told her that he just wants to be friends. She wants to know, “Does he really want me or not?”
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Charlotte said.
ReplyDeleteWhy does SHE ask this question??????? "Does he really want me or not?"... HE'S already answer her question. Why does SHE think that his answer is so off base to make HER seek answers to a question that HE'S already answered? HE DONT WANT HER! PERIOD! He clearly doesn't want her to be "more" to him and this has been displayed consistently thru out their adulthood.
I agree with Charlotte. I almost feel sorry for the girl because clearly she's oblivious to the fact that he doesn't want her because he's already had her. He's already test driven her and figured out she's none of what he wants, so much to the point he's going to tell a BS lie that he's celibat now....LMAO! She should've gotten the hint when he married his ex. No man marries a woman because she's pregnant. This is not 1920. If anything, they'd rather not marry the woman to remove themselves from the responsibility. That marriage didn't work because he didn't want it to and the ex probably didn't want to put up with his crap. It was evident by the fact he was still sleeping with you he's not husband material and the ex got it, you don't. Also, he's not in a position to take care of a wife b/c of two little things....child support and alimony, duh!
ReplyDeleteSweetie, do yourself a favor and try save a bit of dignity. Stop calling him, don't answer his calls & move on.
It's sad this young lady is serious with this question. No, he does not want her. He wants to use her and give her enough hope to think that they will be together. He has no intentions of try to commit to her and if she knows what is best, she will let him go. It will hurt for a little while, but she wants this to be a learning experience in the future, not some mistake she will regret for for years to come.
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