Monday, August 24, 2009
" Am I Over Qualified"
Hey good people I went to a wedding this weekend with my wife and some of her friends. In the process I had a conversation with a young lady and she was asking me why couldn’t she get a man not even a husband just a good man. She is 28 years old very educated and she makes about 6 figures, she has her own house and car very well kept (Independent) but humble. She isn’t the type of woman who thinks she doesn’t need a man, she wants a man to take control of her relationship and she wants to submit as a wife to a man well deserving of her. Her complaint is that every dude that she meets is either looking for a woman to take care of him or he is intimidated by her job position and her living style. She told me that all she wanted was a man who could take care of himself and be willing to build a life with her, she said that he doesn’t have to make more than her or even be in the same occupation. She also stated that she feels that her being an attractive women as well is part of the problem. She wants to know what is it that she’s not doing and why can’t she attract a man with some substance.
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Shaquana said.
ReplyDeleteI'd say, join the club girlfriend. & the club I'm referring to is the one with all the women who feel like they have so much to bring to the table that it intimidates men, etc, etc. Sometimes this is true. But most times it's not. That six figure gig, the ability to take care of a man, etc is all superficial. None of it is skin deep. None of those things speak to the kind of woman you are. I would suggest renting He's Just Not That Into You. Great movie. Sometimes we need to take inventory of self & figure out what it is within us that attracts certain types of men. I assure you there is something lurking in the shadows. & it's a difficult process. But in the end it's well worth
So she sounds like ii nice women were she
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