Monday, July 19, 2010
"Good Girls"
Good day all, I hope everyone had a good weekend. I talked with a old friend this weekend at a Birthday party and he asked me a good questions. Is there really a such thing as a good girl? You know the ones that say " o I would never do that" or " I have never don't that". Is it that or will they only do it for a certain someone. Ladies I'm calling you out today. Is there a certain thing that you have done in your past that your mate will never know about? If your single is it one person that will make you do what you say you won't do? Keep it real!!! Ladies yall know it's some things that yall have done that you will never tell a soul.
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I don’t think there’s such a thing as a good girl. There are women that are uptight and unadventurous that may be less prone to try new, crazy things…but, I believe if the woman links up with the right man and he approaches her the right way, she’ll do anything for him. Now, he may have to try on more than one occasion and find ways to introduce his ideas without making her “freak out”. Patience is key… I can’t speak for women at large. I will speak about me….I’ve never done anything that I wouldn’t tell anybody. But there are certain things I’ve done that I’d never tell to certain people. I’ve done some things with one person that I’ve never done with another. I’d never tell my mate/boyfriend about something that I did with someone else. That has the potential to cause all kind of problems and bruise the ultra sensitive male ego. Lmbo. I’ve learned to never say what I will never do I’ve had to eat those words too many times. Well, I take that back; there is something I’d NEVER do.
ReplyDelete-Ouijella
Shean Williams Pope YES!
ReplyDeleteNiekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteOkay but does that change when you get married? What if your husband doesn't have that affect on you that someone in your past does? Do you take on the "Good Girl" role?
.Shean Williams Pope
ReplyDeletewell, my friend's husband does NOT have that affect on her at all. She wouldn't say go back to the "good girl" role, but there are so many things that he will never know about her simply because he isn't the "ONE" that takes her there. The friend does find some middle ground but, there really is no comparison...poor friend....lol
iekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteI think a lot of married men really don't know how much a FREAK their wives really are! Only b/c they started off as a "Good Girl"! As a result, they can't a "BAD GIRL" which a lot of times hurt the relationship cuz both needs are not met!!
Monica Morris
ReplyDeleteMe...i dont think if im not sexually involved to that matter to some point i dont think i would marry him because i dont want to cheat on him. i do want to be a faithful wife and my fear of marriage is divorce an i sure wouldnt want that to be my reason that he cant give me what i need sexually. Now if he starts off giving then stops for no damn reason then that a whole other ball game! #oleflamehereicome#
Monica Morris
ReplyDeleteI say u can play that good girl role but after a while that shit plays out. U can be good all u want but that nicca wants to c some freak in ur azz somewhere! These women r scared to be themselves believe me it will be a whole lot better if u do cause what u wont do that nicca will get freaked from another woman.
Shean Williams Pope
ReplyDeleteLOL....
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@monica you speak the gospel.....lol can't turn a hoe into a housewife......but ill be damn if the hoe don't make the Best WIfE....I mean that's what I read....lol carry on ladies..#takingnotes
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteMomo, will you talk to your husband first regarding your needs not being met? Or would you just cheat?
Shean Williams Pope
ReplyDeletewell in my friends case, she was the one who put the *spark* in the bedroom. Whereas, she was used to sparks from both to create a ******BOOM*******
Monica Morris
ReplyDeleteI will atleast talk to him first to see if its me that doesnt make him spark or is it him thats not interested in me nomore. I will make cheating my very last resort. I know people say they cheat cause they aint getting it at home but that person can be giving u they all and they still go out and cheat. everybody is different!
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDeleteI think a lot of women have a hard time telling the new guy to choke them......slap them...etc etc during sex......J BOO lol know your secret so its just easier to call him over to handle that other side.....then asking the "good guy" to do it.....plus he prolly fu%k up experience by not doing rt and asking baby you ok?....I. mean that's what a friend told me...lol
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteI pray that my husband and I have NO secrets!!! I hope that from the jump we allow each other to see the good/bad...angel/devil...and everything else about each other. I want my man to know that I don't have a problem w/being a classly lady on his arm and freak that wants to be ravished in the bedroom or anywhere for that matter! LOL
Monica Morris
ReplyDeletei agree kia! Secrets are not good at all cause they will hunt u! put it out there so nothing backfire on that azz!
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDeleteYour secret safe with me-a.key......I WON'T TEEELLL....lol
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@niekkia.....so if I don't tell you something.....you never ask about.....is it a secret....or is it unexposed information?
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteUra, I don't this has nothing to do if its a new/old guy! I think it based on your comfort level w/this person. However, it is important to let anyone know what your needs are. The man from the past knows how to work that thang while you're twerking that thang and of course cuz you're comfortable w/him!
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDeleteI think its not so much comfort....if so you would be with him.....I think FAMILAR and no expectations gives the woman more control....
Nicholas White -LL
ReplyDeleteWow!!! I didn't know this topic would jump like this! Thanks NP
ia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteThat's unexposed information but why would you NOT tell your partner everything to avoid a potential problem!
Nicholas White
ReplyDeleteI think the whole good girl thing starts at home, with the parents. "Good girls don't do this or that" but they never say that its's okay once u get married.
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@niekkia how would you know to tell them......most potential problems....are never seen in the potential stage.....problems never get a invite......they just come.....most women try to leave their past behind.....the problem is your past has everything to do with who you are
SoSpoiled Sha' Young
ReplyDeleteGood topic, great answer....nothing left to say!!
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteNot that true Ura! Just cause your comfortable w/a person doesn't mean you have to be w/them. It can be many different reason why the relationship doesn't work.
Nicholas White -LL
ReplyDelete@Ura I must disagree, problems do get invites. When u tell ur mate hey I need this from u or that and they do nothing about it, that's an invite and opens the door for another that will or that one who will all ways make u get buck!
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDeleteI agree but COMFORT is birth by UNCOMFORT.......I just hate when women are comfortable but get social perception anxiety..... who ever you got comfortable with you allowed yourself......not with TIME but with GRIND.....I can meet someone today and have sex with them......by Friday we both COMFORTABLE......COMFORT is a code name for NICCA NOT YOU...lol
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteI don't have a problem telling a person what I enjoy doing or have done to me! I would simply just tell them. I don't think its a certain way to tell your feelings or the truth.
The statement that you just made about a person past is the very reason WHY a lot of people don't tell their past cuz they worry about being judge!
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Nicholas......Invitations or Opportunity? I think its not so much a invite but a opportunity to justify doing whatever.......I can see how many men view it as a invite......but for me I believe like chris rock....."a man is as faithful as his opportunity"......if you really respect her and care the only invite it should create is the invitation to resign from the relationship......not cheat
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDeleteIt funny how people only want to be JUDGE when the judgement is GOOD.....then its a compliment..... its hard telling someone the truth period....... if I didn't put it down like him on the 6 time......just lie to me.....lol you can't coach the gifts of some people.....we all like what we like....its all about learning how to like something different.....DIFFERENT is not the same.....
Nicholas White -LL
ReplyDeleteThat's sounds good it really does brotha, but if u lacking at the house and the opportunity knocks and ur in a situation u can't tell me u won't take it.
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteI agree Nicholas...I think the Good Girl does start very young! Girls are told NOT to have sex but boys are kinda in a the direction. Most parents will buy their son's condoms but will punish their daughters for having sex! #doublestandards
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Nicholas you didn't say marriage.....of course all married men need a girl friend......the outside women keeps you inside.....women should know dating a married man keeps him MARRIED...I mean I read this bro...lol ill never cheat on my future exwife.....unless she's there and that what's she wants....lol....
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Niekkia I'm from bessma.....with its cool to have a baby young.....as long as they got some jordans on.....parents is two right.....where they do that at?957 is the soundtrack to the movie "LET'S F&^*K"......I thinks parents are most real.....however self control should be the perference over birth control.......
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteUra, yeah its easier to take compliments! But a person wants to know that they are accepted for their faults as well!
Nicholas White -LL
ReplyDelete@Ura I agree self control should be but parents shouldn't be stupid and not be extra careful. If they think about sex and have a willing partner! IT'S GOING DOWN!
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Niekkia I only judge when women tell me all this freaky things they done and be like I don't do that anymore.......hell yeah ima judge your ass.....why u even tell me what used to be on the menu....if I can't order it...... hell I loved who you was....you can change baby...but let's do a remix......gangsta grill!!!!!lol
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Niekkia I support having sex young......and getting saved when u can't have sex no more......that's my plan......as soon as my sh&t stop working I will be on the Deacon Board.........lol
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteUra, 957 and Bessma....I'm confused? Let's not start w/the riddles!
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteWhy do yopu have to be on the Deacon board when you having sex?
.Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteREPOST: why can't you be on the Deacon board when you're having sex?
Nicholas White -LL
ReplyDelete@ Ura Wow!! Really
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Niekkia.......I'm sorry COX RADIO station 95 point 7 uses the digital air waves to endorse music that promotes sex....I made reference to the city Bessemer which incidentally I'm from to represent the demographic and idealogy of the western side of town pertaining to SEX and parenting.....it was a rebutal to your statement about what parents endorse in terms of boys vs girls.....lol
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDeleteIts my solution to not sinning.....getting SAVED when I can't sin.....its perfect solution......I can really preach about it then......lol
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteAre you saying everyone on the Westside views parenting and sex the same as you?!?!
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDeleteNope.......its not a generaliztion.......its a realization.....my statement does not represent every parent or child on the western side.....however when they say it more black men lock up then free I understand the reality of that statement eventhough I'm not locked up......but on second thought u ain't gotta be in jail to be doing time....ijs
ClassicLady Wills
ReplyDeleteI guess I have to agree with some when they say that some men can have an affect on u that will have ur ass doing crazy shit. I think that every woman has run into a nicca that has had that affect on u. And if they haven't done "it", what ever "it" is they will one day.
I think there is a such thing as a "Good Girl". There are certain chics that like it "ordinary". Even if they find Mr. Right they are not willing to try new things, and are uncomfortable with the situation.
ReplyDeleteThis could be due to embarassment, or fear of what her man might think of her,or just how they were raised. Regardless of the man, this particular type of chic want budge.
Opposite chic(Bad Girl):
This type of chic is down for just about whatever.
Me personally, if a man has made it to the bedroom level, then everything is up for grabs "literally"
A man will have to stimulate me mentally before he makes it to that level. I mean if you don't feel comfortable with doing things with your "Man", then why is he your "Man"?
So to sum it up, whomever it makes it to level 5, will receive level 10 reward.
Ok now DT I like that, I will give 5 for 10.
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