Wednesday, July 21, 2010
"Why Women Cheat"
What’s good people! Once again I have to say the blog topic yesterday was off the hook. Thanks to Niekka Pierce for posting this on her Face Book page. With that being said we’re going to keep it going. Today let’s touch on “Why Women Cheat”, It has been said that 90% of men cheat and only 10% of women. I personally don’t agree, I think it’s 50/50 men just get caught 90% of the time. So does that mean women are better cheaters? So ladies and gentlemen why do women cheat verse’s men?
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I think men cheat either because they don’t feel appreciated or just for the physical fix of going out and having sex with another woman. If I had to say why men do it most of the time, I’d say it’s because of the physical desire to be with another woman. I do, however, believe it is possible for a man to desire another woman if he is not being taken care of emotionally at home. A man needs to feel appreciated just like women do. They need to know that what they are doing is being noticed. I would even say that men need their ego stroked more than women. If a woman fusses at a man every day about how he’s no good, she can’t trust him, he’s this, he’s that, he will respond to the first woman who takes notice in the things he is doing right but the end result will be physical in nature. Women are different. We may cheat for the same reason, but the cheating itself is to fill an emotional void. We are more likely to be emotional cheaters first, so it takes longer for it to result in a physical act (if ever at all). Women are more likely to stick it out before we entertain another man. And yes…women are better cheaters. We lie every day so we’ve just got more practice (yes honey, you’re the man…no you haven’t gained weight…you did a good job cutting the grass, dinner was great, I love your mother, etc., etc.).
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Monica Morris
ReplyDeleteI say also its 50/50. We all have cheated in some sort mental or physically. But on the real note as a women i have cheated with no strings attached just cause of the lack of attention sexually an mentally. I think some men claim they know how to cheat but they dont they run an get another relationship and still have that woman at home. #justdumb# ... See MoreThen when they get caught their standing there looking stupid. And still go back to the same woman they got caught with like that havent had enuff. U have to be honest with urself and that other person hey i have someone at home at it is what it is, its left up to them to want to continue to fool around. Women fall easily than men do also when ur the other woman so again its left up to that woman to sit around and wait for that man to be free 2 hook up!
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteI agree w/Momo 100%!!! I do think women do a better a job at cheating w/no strings attached. That's why so many married men and guys in relationships end of w/multiple relationships!
Nicholas White-LL
ReplyDeleteAuhh I don't know ladies, when women make the choice to go there with a man I think its emotional. In most cases I think men are better at hit and runs than women. Women are better at it because most men that u cheat with don't care if u have a man and won't say anythinh in fear of losing the cookie.
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDeleteCheating needs to be define......I think men and women have two different definitions.....I think in most relationships the man and woman assume that their vocabulary is congruent......it sounds the same.....buts means something different (ie what is a man?) I've learn when engaging in indepth convo with women....get her definition...this saves a ... See Morelot of time if we define a word differently from jumpstreet......what is cheating?.....mentally is that possible?...if so I've never been faithful in my life.
Aisha Zulu
ReplyDeleteMost mentally stable women only cheat when their needs r not being met. A good woman will normally voice that her needs r not being met to her partner, and if the needs still go on unmet then they seek them in the arms of others...
Aisha Zulu
ReplyDeleteSome men cheat for the same reason ~needs not being met~, just cuz they r dogs, just to see if they still got it~EGO~, just cuz a woman shows them some attention, and many other reason. Prob has alot to do with slavery mentallity 2~ yall were taught and trained to b breeders it might b in yall's DNA now. Really depends on the person and their psychology...
Nicholas White -LL
ReplyDelete@ Ura good point so ladies what is ur def of cheating?
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDelete@Ura, you've NEVER been faithful?
Monica Morris
ReplyDeleteWhen u r in a relationship and u go after another woman sexually. If u can be married and have female friends an ur wife knows and has met and been around her thats not cheating. BUT, when u fucking that woman thats cheating point blank. But u and ur woman has to accept if she accepts u having a female friend an if she dont and u go behind her back oh yea thats an azz whooping all day long!
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteI think cheating needs to be defined cuz I thought it was the same
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Niekkia depending on how y'all defining cheating?......how can you cheat mentally.......if you thinking of jeezy ti the dream....is that cheating.....depending on our cheating is define....maybe you haven't ever been faithful either.....lol ;)
Aisha Zulu
ReplyDeleteThat depends on the relationship... I have been in relationships where only thing was cheating was sexual intercourse... Not cheating~ kissing making out, oral, going on dates, snuggling, sleeping in the same bed... Thats something u work out with ur partner! But like Ura said yall need to discuss it so u know ur boundaries...
Monica Morris
ReplyDeletecheating mentally is when ur with ur man an during sex an ur thinking bout fucking another man then ur mentally cheating because ur not giving ur man ur all! sitting on the phone talking nasty to the other man/woman thats mentally cheating...why i say that is ,if u walk in a room and u hear ur girl moaning an all can of erotic shit ur going to be like wtf! So mentally cheating can be definded al kinds of ways!
Monica Morris
ReplyDeleteAisha ok naw! kissin,ORAL,going on dates,and the rest that sum bull shit an i aint going for that shit hell naw!!!
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDelete@Ura, my relationships w/Jeezy, T.I. and the Dream are revealed from the jump. You know about that those relationships, right? Define what you consider to be cheating? I know what it takes to be faithful because I have!
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Niekkia......you can't be serious..... over the years my definition of cheating has change......I won't be offended if you ever call dream name......as long as at the time.....I'm the (radio) killar!!! Lol now back to why women cheat......lol
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteThe cheating must be defined...I'm not cool w/dates, kissing and all that!
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteLMAO @ Ura! Get back to the topic. I know its hard but we can't make this status about Niekkia! #cantgetenough
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDeleteREALITY CHECK- I don't endorse this idealogy or practice this anymore.......IN A RELATIONSHIP is not a status no where..... church or state....either you married or you single.....it ain't cheating if I ain't married......millions of women and men feels this way......I've heard women tell me I'm not going to be faithful till I get married....most women cheat too because they know or assume their man cheating....I call it prepaid getback....I'm glad I've changed...lol...
Nicholas White -LL
ReplyDeleteWomen by far are the best! In my opinion cheating is anything u do with another man/woman that u can't tell ur mate.
.Monica Morris
ReplyDelete@ Nic I do agree! Respect is due!
Aisha Zulu
ReplyDeleteYep alot of ppl feel that way but their partners dont know about it. Cuz how many ppl would agree to get in a relationship with a cheater?? Especially if they know they r going to get cheated on?? Thats y those ppl NEED to stay SINGLE!!
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@nic I agree......but once a man realizes the truth gets him more ass then the lie......its ova g......real talk....I've been told just don't have sex with her right after me cause I don't want no yeast infections...lolololol I'm just playing that's what a friend told me....I'm saved now.....I mean saving myself for that special someone.........lol
.Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDelete@Ura, that is a REALITY CHECK!
Nicholas White
ReplyDelete@Ura boy stop!!! U stupid.I totally agree when I was single I told every woman I was dealing with about the others. I think they look at it as "she can't do it better than me" so I get more and it gets better!
.Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteOMG....that is GROSSS!
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Niekkia that's what I said when my friend told me...@nic....as 3000 said"you ever heard a playa wit no game told the truth to get what I want and shot it with no shame"....once a man realizes that he ain't got to lie about nothing.....game ova... and the other women so cool about she be reminding you about your girl bday and shit coming up.....I've had women buy my girlfriend shit.....I mean a friend of mines told me this....lol
Aisha Zulu
ReplyDeleteUra~ Damn u, I mean ur friend has it going on!!
Nicholas White
ReplyDeletelol!!!!!!!!!!!!! this dude is killing me!!!!! @ niekkia why is that gross? the man is being honest.
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Aisha I don't hang with that dirtbag anymore......bad ENERGY ;) feel me.....lol
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteUra, your friend has major game!!! He hasn't met his match yet! lol
Nicholas White-LL
ReplyDeleteHow many women on here have cheated and been caught?
.Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDelete@Nic, its not gross that he is telling us that but gross that someone will lower their standards and deal w/that mess.
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Niekkia I think he has.......he now distinguish the difference between hard.....and heart....see what I mean it sounds the same but has two different meaning......what u doing later...;).......I mean back to the subject.....lololol
.Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteI've cheated and was caught! But I confessed what I was doing.
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Niekkia if you got caught......it wasn't much of a confession
Aisha Zulu
ReplyDeleteI have never been caught but I have made s few confessions..
Aisha Zulu
ReplyDeleteI feel ya on the bad energy! *sending out the positive vibes* Errbody feeling IRIE!
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteThanks BFF! I LOVE good energy!!!
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteI confessed before I started looking for attention outside my relationship...he didn't believe me so he had to find out himself!
Nicholas White
ReplyDeleteLol!!!! Auhh yeah Niekkia that wasn't a confession it was a DAMN!!! Moment, so how did u get caught?
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@all anything you say can and will be used against you......lol.......
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDeleteIf I have a need that my women can't provide or should I say don't do.......is it cheating?...........she cheated first when she didn't do what I needed.......that's what a friend told me how he feels
Aisha Zulu
ReplyDeleteUra ur friend PLUCKS!
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteI had expressed how unhappy I was in the relationship. I told him that he make some corrections or I will! #BAM It wasn't ugly.
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDeleteBFF, that friend will make your SCREAM to the top of your lungs!!!!
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Niekkia I wonder how much understanding and love went into the corrections he had to make......surely he didn't just become that way.........was he given a fair chance to change.....sounds like your desires put him on the clock.....tic toc tic toc.....how much time did it take the other guy......... ;) just asking for blog purposes of course...lol
Aisha Zulu
ReplyDeleteOKAY! LOL!
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDelete@Ura, this blog is NOT about Niekkia! I know its hard! LOL #cantgetenough
The ratio is 50/50. Women cheat for the same reason that men do: Ego, attention, needs not being meet, just because they can, not happy in their current relationship. etc.People seem to think that men are just dogs, there is also a female versions of this.
ReplyDeleteIf you don't want to be in a relationship, you should be open with everyone involved. In this case, there would be no such thing as cheating.It works out perfectly with the right people involved.
I concur with N white with the definition of cheating, whether it's mental or physical: anything u do with another man/woman that u can't tell ur mate.
Ura PictureThis
ReplyDelete@Niekkia I think the entire audience would be interested in this response......lol
.Nicholas White
ReplyDelete@ Nekkia, did u get caught in the act?
Niekkia DivaNine Pierce
ReplyDelete@Ura, Niekkia/Nine will not be entertaining you...this has nothing to do w/an audience. lol
@Nicholas, is anyone going to stay on the actual topic?
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