Tuesday, May 12, 2009

"Was he flirting"

Okay just got a call from my friend and his wife they fowarded me an email that he sent to one of his female class mates from high school. Well his wife thought that it should have been about the class reunion and that's it. Below I will paste the conversation tell me what you think.







April 23 at 9:06pm
Out of the blue. It's a pleasure to know youre still around and doing well.How have you been? is an overused question. I find it much more interesting to ask..........TELL ME EVERYTHING I'VE MISSED ABOUT YOUR LIFE SINCE HIGH SCHOOL (PRETEND WE WERE BEST FRIENDS)


April 27 at 2:22pm
Hey .. I see that you still have your sense of humor :-) I'm doing well, how are you? Sorry it took me so long to respond.. I haven't checked my inbox in a while....

April 28 at 9:27am
wow, its so nice to talk to someone from the past. nice pictures by the way, I never knew you could look so good, lol.



April 28 at 9:34am
I know right.. HA, you're funny... thanks... I think lol



April 28 at 9:42am
No really, I didn't know you could look that good... just playing. hmmmmmm... awkward silence.......Are you still in alabama



April 28 at 9:54am
Oh whatever... I'm just all grown up now:-) I see you have gained some weight...awkward silence lolYes, I am still here, for now.



April 28 at 9:57am
do me a favor, call my office phone. And no im not coming on to you.



April 28 at 9:58am
im supposed to be doing paperwork not typing.



April 28 at 9:59am
Ah... I figured that.. married man lol.. I'm about to go into a meeting... I will call sometime today



April 28 at 10:10am
that'll work.



May 11 at 10:52am
I didn't forget about ya...well maybe I did... sorry lol



Today at 8:59am
I figured you forgot, just let me know if there is a high school reunion being planned. AT least you can admit you forgot.



Today at 9:00am
you get two points for that



Today at 9:09am
Aw well thanks for the two points... I will find out for ya... I think so, but I'm not sure.



Today at 9:10am
alright

5 comments:

  1. I do feel like he might have been playing/joking which could be classified as flirting. I feel like it’s human nature for us to be attracted to the opposite sex and our mate is in denial if the feel like we’re not going to be attracted to someone else. We have to trust our mate to make the right decisions. Now I’m speaking from a stand point of having a man of God. It you have a someone that’s not that spiritually mature then he’s not going to understand the holy and sacred bond of married so he’ll be easily influence and persuaded. “What God has brought together, let no MAN separate” is something he won’t understand. But if you have a man of God that’s different. He knows that when a man finds his woman, he finds a good thing who is his rib, his soul mate, the dote to his eye, his prayer warrior and intercessor, HIS QUEEN. And he won’t be willing to compromise these things. Yes of course he’ll have temptations, but without hell/trails there’s no blessings. It depends on what type of relationship you have because some people that’s insecure automatically assume that this man is going to cheat… SOLUTION: Pray and ask god to reveal your mate and your relationship to you and wrestle not with flesh and blood.

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  2. I agree with you somewhat. I personally am an advocate of not giving the devil any play. What I mean by that is not leaving any room for anything to begin. For instance, David was what you may call a man of God. In the word it talks about how began to look upon Bathsheba and to make a short story shorter, he began to lust after her and unfortunately killed her husband so that he could take her as his wife. Not saying that in this situation that it would or was leading that way, but you just don’t give the enemy any le way. Even men of God have been known to fall. Temptation begins by either the eyes or the ears and if either person is weak spiritually then this could have been the beginning of something bad. You never know. If you have not seen the movie Obsession you should. That movie is a perfect example of something that was purely innocent taken the wrong way.

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  3. I agree with both of you. Even though we will never know the true intent of this conversation we just have to pray and seek GODLY cousel. Please contiue to comment.

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  4. Yes he was "flirting" like mentioned in the other comments don't open that door to be tempted...DO NOT give place to the devil. He is here ONLY to kill, steal and destroy. Destroy what GOD has joined together! All cheating and temptation starts by COMMUNICATION! If the old high school friend has grown up and looks good, it was ok to tell her but not to that extent...it was taken as I'm having thoughts about you and me and what we could do. I just think it was taken too far and the communication should be limited (should've just been talking about business or maybe the fun times in high school). She knows he is married and WILL test him. If he does not RESPECT his marriage and the commitment he has made to his wife before God, then she sure won't and vice versa...men are the same way. But I can go on and on but don't have the time...you get my point:) Peace!

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  5. Ok I kinda get your point... but I don't think her was trying to get himself some. Okay it may have been a thought but I don't think he was just saying hey I want to take you down throuh there. Good Points though. And yall stop being so deep.

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