Thursday, May 14, 2009

"What ! You Ain't Gone Tell Him"

Hey guys you must check this out. Got an email from one of the followers on here and this is what one of her friends sent her. O thanks for the info.

Ladies I got a story about that too!!!! I was in a wedding of a girlfriend who lived in Atlanta..I took my friend with me it was a busy weekend..I took a red eye out Friday night..anyway..Saturday, after the wedding I’m dog tired..I only got about 2-3 hours sleep..I go back to my room..to go to bed b/c I’m flying out Sunday afternoon...my friend decided to chill, hang out with groomsmen…Well, she hooked up with the grooms man who walked me down the aisle..

Guess what??? Saturday I'm hosting her baby shower..she got pregnant by him (he don't know)..she's keeping the baby of course b/c she wants one soooooo bad..crazy huh?
Just thought I’d share a little drama but more importantly show U how trifling some women are. I love her, but she wrong. This girl is kind of the drama queen..she isn't going to tell him either..she doesn't know him..besides keeping me company while I attended the wedding..They never spoke after that night, she says she isn't going to Atlanta again..she’s convinced she doesn't see a reason to tell him..What ya’ll think?

7 comments:

  1. Just trifling! As the potential father, whether she wants him to know or not. He has the right to know. Whatever happened to protected sex! Guess that though flew out the window with the condom. Just a stab in the dark here.......what if the groomsmen she had the baby by had a family history of certain illnesses/diseases, e.g. high blood pressure, diabetes, sickle cell trait. You may know this if you asked the right questions...not 'do you want the lights on or off?' Some people just need to be on a need to know basis.

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  2. I know right people don't think of these things when they lay down. I love the part about the illnesses, I mean that is so true. You have so many people with medical condition and they don't know why or where they got it from. Come on people its going to be the same that 30secs it takes to put the condom on.

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  3. Well ok then....now I have seen trifling but that is an understatement and just low down. She will regret not telling him b/c it will back fire. Now what if this man is a good man and responsible who just want to be in his child's life....how's he gone do that if he don't know he has a child. In the end it is going to effect that child more than anything. Honestly, she IS NOT READY for a baby like she think she is. She's too immature because if she was "ready" she would be worried about what's good for that child and the child's well bein. This situation is UNBELEIVABLE!!!

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  4. WOW! the first ISSUE is why do we have GROWN AZZ hell people not using protection during their impromptu hoe moments (refering to both the man & the woman)....but since that is not the nature of this post I digress....

    Morally she has a responsibility to let this man know that he has a child in the world. If she is so willing to go it alone, the topic of child support should be null and void. Therefore anything this man chooses to do would be extra gravey for her and the child. In the meantime lets pray the child never develops any health issues that knowing the father's history could help amend or avoid.

    GG!

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  5. What's up GG thanks for coming aboard,feel free to comment as you please. We are all adults here. Pass the site info along.

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  6. She needs to tell him. It's sad that we have women out here keeping men away from their children. I wish her and her baby the best and find it in her heart to tell that man...

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  7. First of all..... When you make a huge life decision like having a baby you have to consider all parties involved!!! The Father is included in that as well as the baby.... Later on down the line the baby is going to be the one to ultimately suffer. It is extremly selfish to just consider your own wants & needs. The first & biggest part of being a mother is to consider your child first. She has already failed at that. Please tell the Father & allow for him to choose whether to be a part, or not!

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