What’s up ladies and gents. I had a quick but deep conversation with a friend today. We talked about “what women really want”. She is a female and was saying that it’s so many women that say they want this in a man and that in a man but don’t have anything to offer as being a woman. Women sometimes not all the time ask for way more than what they are ready for. Now it’s some men that do the same but most don’t because they know that nine times out of ten or they believe that the woman that he’s pursuing already has it together. Nope not all of them. It’s called selling yourself, kind of like what you do when your interviewing for a job. Once you get the job then you have to prove yourself. Why? Why do women have it all planed out what they want their man to do and have for them and I have only heard once what she was going to do for him. Destiny’s Child “Cater To You”. Help me out what are the women going to do in the relationship, when are they going to realize that the man they want is not always the man they need.
I know yall about to give it to me on this one.
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INTERESTING. I recieved a forward via text yesterday. Something in regards to men, women and gas pumps. The last statement read (paraphrasing): "so make them (men) pay before they pump". I felt somekind away about the messege. It made me think about how we as women,as this posting suggest, don't know what we want. "Don't call me a whore...BTW what am i going to get for giving you pu$$Y' is a walking contradiction.
ReplyDeleteWell your right, half these women dont know what they wont in a man and get a good one and dont know how to act... making it hard for good woman to find a good man cause the last one played over them. Me personally I know that I have alot of work for good to complete in me... But I know that I good sent me my mate I would let my love for God reflect on my husband... (damn that's deep) See your suppose to be able to see God through your man cause he is what stands between you and him, you HEAD, PROVIDER, and the very MAN YOUR BLESSINGS FLOW THROUGH. You got to have respect for your man so when he see these bobble heads out hear, he immediately thanks God for the Powerful woman of God that he has a home!
ReplyDelete(I SING THIS AS I DO A LIL TWIRLE AROUND FOR MY HUSBAND)
Let me help you take off your shoes, untie your shoe strings take off your cuffliks.
What you wanna eat boo let me feed you, let me run your bath water whatever your desire I'll aspire you.
Sing you a song turn the game on I'll brush your hair Help you put your do rag on.
Want a foot rub(yeah) you want a manicure
Baby I'm yours I wanna cater to my boy!
Let me cater to you cause baby this is your day do anything for my man baby you blow me away.
I got your slippers, your dinner your desert and so much more.
Anything you want let me cater to you inspired me from the heart can't nothing tear us apart you all I want in a man I put my life in your hands got your slippers your dinner your desert and so much more.
Anything you want I wanna cater to you.
"Baby, u want cheese in your eggs?" I do it all, from helping him with his resume to cutting the grass on that damn hill of ours when I don't feel like it! I'm his SUPERWOMAN!!!!
ReplyDeleteCheese in my eggs! lol
ReplyDeleteI think women want what they see on tv. I think happiness is determined by what they see and can show. They want someone thats a shell basically. Hard outter frame, (good for protection)money in the pocket,(not just for bills but for her needs) and a house and car.
ReplyDeleteThey dont think about the possibility that someone this situated, IF SINGLE, probably has no inner feelings towards women. They are empty and not looking for love, they feel as though they can buy it.....
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ReplyDeleteNow that's what I need! Big up's to my boy pistol joining the blog, we need some brothers up in here. Pistol in this boy firing off comments LOL!!!
ReplyDeletePistol perhaps should deal with women who have more on their plate than watching television!!!
ReplyDeleteI don't get what you are saying....WHO? are these people
I'm with you Genia. Sounds like Pistol is dealing with the wrong crowd here. There may be some influences on TV for some women which they can be seen as shallow, etc. But me on the other hand am INFORMED by the media, not INFLUENCED! Happiness comes from within!!! Me asking my husband if he wants cheese in his eggs is a courteous question just after I have SERVED him dinner. Now it's time for breakfast. I am pleased when I please him. TV does not teach me that. My mother did by watching her behavior when she shows love for her husband. When I cut the yard, there are many reason I do this. Not because the TV told me to. But because I get fresh air and exercise, want curbside appeal, I enjoy it and my husband may have been tired from working 16 hours straight. OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOh, we having church up in here now! My husband is my companion, not my sponsor!
ReplyDeleteSometimes we don't know what we want neither do men or they usually want it all lol. Most women do want what they see on TV and have this fairy tale images in their heads....NOT HAPPENING so Tyler Perry's movies are just that, movies!! After watching Diary of a Mad Black Women and Family Reunion I remember as I was walking out of the Theater women were talking about how they think or wish their man come along in those ways...:-& Please snap into reality. I was always taught that all men (and women) have flaws you just gotta pick which ones you want to deal with. What do will you offer your man?
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