Wednesday, July 22, 2009
" The Biggest Deceivers"
Good day people got a question. We are at work having a conversation about who are the biggest deceivers, men or women. Is it women with their fake accessories nails, hair, eyelashes, make up exc… or is it men with what they really want in a woman, or what is their real intent.
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This may seem a little sexist to some, but hey but its my opinion. I think women are the biggest deceivers point blank. Men don't know what their real intent is until they actually know what they are dealing with. Now when the woman you see in the bed is a totally different woman than the one you see in the daytime,the man wasnt given a choice to make the decision of if he likes your physical appearence or not. Therefore he never met you. He met your self enhanced living stunt-double. If those are not your eyes, eyebrows, eyelashes, facial skin color, fingernails, hair, toe nails, breast, booty, real stomach size, and your clothes are made to cause some type of optical illusion, then why be mad when he leaves because he finds out that the physical story that you are telling and the entire picture of you that this person has is a lie.
ReplyDeleteOn the other hand, a man can hold out on being hiself for as long as it takes for him to figure out what he wants and get it. Men like all types of women. To know how far a man would go with a woman will depend on that particular situation. Mens deceipt is mostly internal (hiding secrets etc..), which means women deceive in both ways( internal and external). Which makes them the biggest deceivers and the best liars.....
Shaquana said.
ReplyDeleteWell Pistol, I think women can say that men deceive externally VERY OFTEN. So often we hear, I can do this, I have that, & when it gets right to it, the package could fit in one of those vienna sausage cans. So, ya'll have ya'll share of external issues as well. But I think it's all insignificant...the makeup & hair & nails, etc. Women like to look nice, I know I do. So I do all that when I feel like it, but when you're looking to meet someone for real, you just hope he's not that shallow. Hopefully he has enough substance to know that when it all comes off, he's there for the person that's inside. But I don't think one sex lies more than the other. I think it's equal. & it boils down to the person & why they feel like they need to be deceitful. Everybody has something to hide, or something about them they don't want to be seen in the bright lights. That's what I think makes us equal deceivers, we all have equal shortcomings.
I agree Shaquana, well put!!
ReplyDeleteDebra said.
ReplyDeleteFirst of all I don't think that women are the best deceivers and this is why...Women pay attention to the things that turns their men on, the things that their men think are sexy, and the things that get their men attention. So how in the world can MEN, drool over all these women like Buffy, that has a abnormal ass and think that their woman don't desire that same reaction from their mate. So since she wants that reaction from you, and she thinks that is what you like, and what turns you on, Guess what? now she is trying to make her ass fat at any cost. Then you say, "Well, I like a woman who is comfortable with herself!" Well, she was comfortable with herself until your vain ass started paying more attention, to what you now call the deceivers. The ladies that have all the extra stuff: Beyonce, Sanaa, Stacey Dash, and the list go, on and on...So woman now think that, thats what it takes to get and keep their man.
Both sexes can be just as deceitful as the next. No one is perfect , so it is about the entire package. Now even though I am all about what swings in between, I think the examples used in the end of Debra's comment were a little off. These are all beautiful women in my opinion and fit might I add. I don't see them to be deceivers but highly blessed with great genes to show off there physical attributes. Just because they are beautiful does not make them deceitful. It is okay if they wear hair extensions, Hell I do when I want the wind to blow through my locks, but on a normal day, my hair is short and sassy. And furthermore, the woman that changed her looks because of what a man said to her might as well jump of a bridge because she is not confident and secure in herself. Men are physical creatures from creation. They look at the physical beauty first. Who cares what their opinion is anyway. They think with the wrong head and ADAM proved it!
ReplyDeleteI personally think the whole deception started in the Garden of Eden with Eve’s smooth lip self. She got her husband to eat that fruit and all hell broke loose. Now I feel both men and women can be equally deceitful , women in their beauty add on and men with their where I think that she thinks I should be at this age. It’s up to the other person to pick and chose what he or she wants to believe.
ReplyDeleteDebra said.
ReplyDeleteI agree with Black Pearl, but the comment I made was based on the original question. Are they deceivers because of their beauty enhancers? My question is basically, "How can weave be ok for them and sexy and what not, but if we use it we are being deceivers?" I guess what I trying to say is you either like it or not. If you don't like weave, eyelashes, make-up, etc. then you should not like it regardless of who wears it or not.
I'm late, but I think women and men equally deceive just on different things. When I was discussing this in the break room, I made the statement that women give men too much credit. They say well I put weave in for men, or I got implants because men like big boobs. No, men like boobs, ass, legs, period. Some men have preferences. It's like Kat Williams said, he's not f#@in your strech marks....neither is he F#@in your boobs, weave or whatever. Last time I checked, the mechanics of sex didn't involve your weave being penetrated so please don't say you do that for men. You like to look nice for two reasons: so you can say you look better than the next bitch OR because you're insecure and think that's what it takes to get attention. The fact of the matter is men like what they like but at the end of the day only one type of girl is a keeper in his mind.
ReplyDeleteAs far as women go, men are equally deceiving. Pistol mentioned that women send their stunt double, well men send their representatives. Often time a man is the best thing since sliced bread, but it's usually because we were so impressed with what he was saying he just kept going and telling us what he thought we wanted to hear. Is it right? NO! Hell, that's just how it is. Bottom line is check, double check and re-check what you're becoming involved with and stick to your guns about what you want. If you want a natural chick, who's down to earth, don't be stupid enough to think that hair to her ass is real. If you want a hard working man who will provide for you, ask questions when the negro say's he's a consultant or is into flipping houses when you ask him his occupation (that ish probably means I sell dope dummy)!
This ,to me, is on a case by case eval. Women are more intellegent by nature that most men dont realized that they have been fooled and taken to the cleaners until the woman leaves. This is amazing, considering most men Pride themselves on being "Players". Men are Decieving in the way that they describe to a woman what they want. No matter what a man says to you "WOMEN" a Man wants something different to marry than to lust over. Learn the difference ,and you will be able to bridge the gap in genders and thus understand each other.
ReplyDeleteCan Nelly and Mr. walker be anymore truthful?
ReplyDeletePart2.........Question. What if a woman or man talked about how great they are in bed, but decided to wait until they were married to jump in the deep in. But then found out it all was a lie. That person did not live up to there expectations. Or maybe all the riches were spent courting the mate and then after the wedding one found out the spouse was broke. Can the vitim of the relationship sue because they felt the other person was deceitful?
ReplyDeleteGood question? I’m not sure but I would be pretty pissed if she told me she could do it better than super head and she didn’t even know what it was. I would sue her but she would have some tired ass jaw bones.
ReplyDeleteYes!!! Yes!!! Yes!!!
ReplyDeleteI feel if you are soo old school that you choose to wait until its no way out of the situation to find out what you have........then you deserve every minute with that broke, sexually unexperienced, liar.....
I apologize all blog participants, as well as the host, that I haven't been participating in the blogs.(sistah been trying to get her job on). I truly feel that whether it's big or small a deceiver is nothing but a liar. I'm not saying I haven't been a guilty party, but ti's just the facts. I think women are better at deceiving, but I believe majority of men decive on deeper levels than women. I try to be as honest as possible at all times, but also being a victim of a deciever I had to learn to understand that people will not treat you the same way you treat them. I say once you've identified a deceiver............to run like hell cause drama only follows!
ReplyDeleteI think men and women are both deceivers, but I don't think they are "equal" deceivers. I think women can deceive with the hair, makeup, body enhancers(push-up bras, spanx, all over girdle thing that is being advertised to slim you down ect), but like one blogger mentioned most women take pride in their appearance and want to look good. If you want to call my wearing make-up a deception, so be it.
ReplyDeleteIn the same sense, men typically view the average women as a deceiver for the things described above, but will ogle and drool over the celebrity woman with these same attributes like she is the most beautiful thing in the world. To me that is deception on the man's part and uncertainty on what is "natural beauty". Bottom line, deception is wrong, but in the case of "beauty enhancement" deception, there's that line between taking care of yourself and flat out lying about what God created you to look like.